Lao Tzu Said That ‘Beautiful Words Are Not Truthful,’ and That Made Me Think About How Much of My Writing Life I’ve Spent Focusing on Style Instead of Substance

I was looking back at an older article I’d written about keeping busy to avoid dealing with sadness when I came across a sentence I’d later decided to simplify. The original read: “The bath of self-pity, the wallow, the loathsome sticky-sweet pleasure of indulging in it — that no longer threatened to bring everything down … Read more

How to Practice One-Minute Mindfulness

How to Practice One Minute Mindfulness

Do you want to learn how to practice one-minute mindfulness? I’ve been reading 8 Mindful Steps to Happiness, one of the most accessible and lucid guides to cultivating awareness, by the beloved Buddhist teacher Ven. Bhante Henepola Gunaratana. In the chapter titled “Beginning a Practice of Mindfulness,” in discussing what beginners can do to be … Read more

I Started Tracking My Own Judgment Patterns to Fix My Social Paranoia — Here’s What I Learned

It was late enough that I should have been asleep when I opened the conversation again. Earlier that day, a friend and I had been making plans to see “Citizen Kane” at a local theater during a weekend retro screening. It was one of those repertory events that made the ordinary theater feel slightly different: … Read more